As many of you know, my father passed away recently. I heard many times prior that the death of a sister, brother, aunt, uncle or cousin could not compare to the death of a parent. You know they were so right. I nevered imagined the hurt, sorrow and grief that I have experienced in his passing. Prior to his death, I conversed with many within the last couple of years regarding transition and God making us aware of transition. Now we often think of transition as a new job or home but most often the death of a loved one never enter our thoughts. I even shared with them how the Lord revealed to me those that were sick in my family and those that would transition from this life to the after life. But even though I was made aware, it still had a tremendous impact upon my life.
It never cease to amaze me the turmoil, confusion and downright drama that comes with a marriage or death. You can just about predict chaos and confusion with both. All the words that were thought and never spoken seem to come out at the drop of a hat be it inappropriate or no. Some things are better left unspoken. The regrets and the many "could or should haves" seem to flavor every conversation. What car should we ride in, who should be listed on the program, and what color should we wear? All legitimate be it insignificant questions considering someone special has departed this life.
Nothing that we do or say can bring them back but they will always be a part of our lives. The things they said, the way they lived, the very essence of who they were will continue to live on with us in a tangible way. I compel each of you to cherish each moment like it is your last. Hug a lot and long. Express your love often. Spend as much time as you can with your loved ones. Put aside all disagreements and forgive quickly. Tomorrow is never promised to us. Depend and call on God's grace each day. As He promises that His grace is sufficient and we have a brand new supply every day.
God extended His grace toward me and He gave me a poem to commemorate the passing of my father.
Grace So Amazing
God’s grace is so amazing and completely undeserved.
His kindness shelter and love beyond words.
Through grief and sorrow it grips our soul
Joy, peace and hope supernaturally unfold.
In quiet and stillness it whispers He is near.
In quiet and stillness it whispers He is near.
The uncertainty of death miraculously clears.
Knowing that those that go before us in Him,
We will see again when He doeth appear.
With humble hearts and steadiness of soul
With humble hearts and steadiness of soul
We continue to watch for His return and hold.
The promise of eternal life, grace perfected.
Extended to us through His death, burial and resurrection.
Remember to celebrate life daily!!!
